…Some are right. Many are jealous. And, a few others are just jokers with theological glasses.

But what’s best for us is to listen to them all.

Many of us are defensive even before we hear them out. That stops them from even completing their point and it stops us from looking inwards.

Hear them out; even their irritation, anger, justification, and all that comes with it. Humble yourself to see if there is any truth in it. Don’t rush to your judgement.

Pray. Breathe. Sleep on it. Ponder and then study some more. And after you have come to your conclusion, keep your heart open because learning is for a lifetime.

Oh and then, separate the issue and continue to love the person.